A poor Approach

Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RhAk3GDuj7E

The book explains this well so I’m just going to pull it straight from the text. Yeah I guess I’m a bit lazy today!

“It is normally perceived as a threat to approach a woman from her side or, if you are driving an automobile, her blind spot. Thus, avoid sitting or standing directly alongside a woman, especially one you don’t know very well. Women feel more comfortable if they are approached from the front because they can better assess the situation and are not taken by surprise. After this initial approach, and if the woman begins to relax, the man can then move to the side to continue the conversation. If, on the other hand, a woman chooses to approach a man, she might do so by approaching initially from the side or from behind, then continuing the conversation directly in front of him. The more she faces a man and matches his torso with her own, the more attraction she is feeling. A man will very normally perceive a woman who approaches directly from the front as a threat but will find this positioning tolerable after an initial approach. It’s easy to picture this in an employee-employer relationship. A female boss might move in directly to her male employee to better establish hierarchy.”

Excerpted from E-book – Body Language Project: Dating, Attraction and Sexual Body Language found at www.BodyLanguageProject.com