Monday, March 3, 2008

Missing the Signals

So the other day my computer had a bit of a glitch. For the nerds out there (myself included) the computer wouldn’t post or would post inconsistently. Turns out there was a small screw set behind the motherboard. Interesting story huh! Well it got me to talking with the store owner about body language. He had been to a bar recently and was hanging out with a few buddies. They found it amusing to watch the antics of a man in his early 40’s trying to seduce the young ladies! He would describe play by play his stances (the cowboy pose) and his close talking. This fair man was even blessed by the appearance of an Alpha male who dwarfed the 6’ man which would have been very amusing to witness. I showed the computer tech a few images and we had a chuckle as I could point out all the poses he was conducting. This brought me to the final conclusion about his body language and that of the women around him. He was clearly missing the signals. The following video demonstrated my thoughts to the tech and we each had a chuckle about how clueless some men are in dating and attraction. If you read the signals, you can use your time better and calibrate your body language to the receptivity of those around you.



Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lwRZpokV3Go

For more information on body language be sure to check out: www.BodyLanguageProject.com and the E-book - The Body Language Project: Dating, Attraction and Sexual Body Language.

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