Body Language Project

tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34787102992949832982011-11-27T16:34:20.642-08:00Body Language ProjectThis Blog covers my experiences with Body Language and their implications in everyday life.Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.comBlogger231100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-83081044781538646052010-04-01T19:46:00.001-07:002010-04-02T09:50:48.668-07:00New Blog Space!

I'm proud to announce that my blog has moved over to our very own domain. This will give me more freedom and time to post. Come and join me over at my new blog.http://bodylanguageproject.com/blog/From The Body Language Project!Christopher Philip

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-5550202535685823712008-03-22T16:40:00.000-07:002008-03-22T16:48:20.214-07:00The wallflower

Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8QZutLZRgJMHow often do we catch either ourselves or other men acting like “wallflowers”? That is, generally acting anti-social and eyeing women. It has been shown that women have more acute peripheral vision then men and just because they aren’t looking directly at a man, doesn’t mean she doesn’t notice your greasy eyeballs all over her. In all

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-72662073349230654712008-03-16T17:44:00.000-07:002008-03-16T19:56:30.864-07:00Does Barack Obama have Narcissistic Personality Disorder [NPD]?

Definition: NPD is rare in the general population (1-2%). A pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following: 1. Has a grandiose sense of self-importance2. Is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance,

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-11367533956631101512008-03-16T17:41:00.001-07:002008-03-17T19:47:12.340-07:00Presidential Candidate Body Language: Barack Obama, John McCain and Hillary Clinton

What can we gather from tonality and gestures of the candidates in their campaigns? It is an interesting question to ponder. John McCain often uses his voice in a monotone fashion and lowers it, which is typical for alpha males. When women speak, they often change levels in pitch and volume and infuse more emotion into their speech then men. Therefore we should naturally expect Hillary

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-41981264196743197442008-03-15T15:32:00.000-07:002008-03-16T19:57:43.096-07:00Eliot Spitizer Body Language

What's most significant about the body language during Eliot Spitzer’s news conference is that performed by Eliot's wife Silda Spitzer. She is avoiding eye contact with the media. She stands at attention with her feet together as a child would when they address an authority figure. She is addressing the media in this way to ask for permission or receive punishment. Her head is most often down

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-20118832909223029502008-03-15T08:29:00.000-07:002008-03-16T19:56:10.901-07:00The Sexy Skirt Hike and It's Hidden Meaning

Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A3W7HK2yguMThe skirt hike is such a sexy display of sexual interest! What’s even more fascinating is that this signal happens subconsciously! Women who are available and interested will subconsciously play with their shirt buttons, perhaps unbuttoning and re-buttoning the upper button to reveal more skin serving to tease the men around her. She might

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-57926185343344769572008-03-12T07:37:00.001-07:002008-03-16T19:58:04.599-07:00Escalate with hot tubs - Intimacy and temperature

Escalate with hot tubsby Christopher PhilipThe temperature of a normal, healthy human being is 37° C (98.4° F), but skin temperature is almost always lower than this and varies according to our emotional state. When we are anxious or afraid our temperature drops. If we are relaxed or sexually aroused, the temperature increases. During the intimate stages of a sexual encounter, a drop in body heat

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-2613814949898312022008-03-12T07:35:00.000-07:002008-03-16T19:58:20.167-07:00Lists of things girls want and don't want!

TOP 13 FLIRTING FLOPSby Christopher PhilipThe following is a list of things that have been determined to be some of the worst you can do when attempting to pick someone up. 1. Approaching too closely 2. Bad breath 3. Bad hygiene 4. Bragging 5. Disproportionate laughter 6. Drunken antics 7. Excessive flattery 8. Smoking 9. Playing dumb 10. Poor eye contact 11. Shaking hands

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-36055591851791832252008-03-10T06:03:00.000-07:002008-03-10T06:20:07.275-07:00On Mirroring Body Language

Link: www.youtube.com/watch?v=mXdGRImmRZYMirroring is an instant way of building or monitoring the connection people have with one another. Yawning for example is a way that even complete strangers feel compelled to mimic. Mirroring-body language helps us gauge what level of agreement is present between people. In our historical past, mirroring each others gestures served to eliminate

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-56772167805144104602008-03-07T09:54:00.000-08:002008-03-16T19:58:42.455-07:00The Peek-A-Boo Game

The following was excerpted from E-book – Body Language Project: Dating, Attraction and Sexual Body Language found at www.BodyLanguageProject.com Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ln2tOnFYBIY“This technique can be used by both men and women. Peek-a-boo is played in much the same way as kids play it, but in a slightly more sophisticated manner. You can do this across a room with another

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-38568619919585314172008-03-06T18:21:00.000-08:002008-03-16T19:59:14.409-07:00Odds are you’ll get a date - a real life experiment

Odds are you’ll get a dateBy Martin Dobrovosky in association with www.BodyLanguageProject.comIf you’re not going on as many dates as you’d like, it’s because you’re simply not making the effort. At least that’s the suggestion behind the results of an experiment in the Journal of Psychology and Human Sexuality. In fact, it seems that the important lesson to be learned from the experiment,

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-44552197173302715722008-03-06T14:39:00.000-08:002008-03-16T19:59:55.098-07:00Attractive Women and Low Self Esteem

Attractive Women and Low Self EsteemBelieve it or not, attractive women have no more self-esteem than less attractive people. They may in fact have less self-esteem because a lot of what others say is quite inconsistent with their actual accomplishments. The world as an attractive woman sees it, is as follows: "No matter what I do, I get complimented. People always say that I do a good job no

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-21000338442211911822008-03-05T07:30:00.000-08:002008-03-05T11:51:46.421-08:00Mystery and Real Life Body Language

I have great respect for the man by the name of Mystery founder of the www.venusianarts.com. He’s done a lot to help open up the study of social dynamics as it applies to dating. When I first discovered his teachings and theories, I was floored and hungry for as much information as I could get my hands on. I stumbled upon the video linked here. His body language is great, dominant, relaxed

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-76005714361136825132008-03-03T11:26:00.000-08:002008-03-03T11:27:08.709-08:00Missing the Signals

So the other day my computer had a bit of a glitch. For the nerds out there (myself included) the computer wouldn’t post or would post inconsistently. Turns out there was a small screw set behind the motherboard. Interesting story huh! Well it got me to talking with the store owner about body language. He had been to a bar recently and was hanging out with a few buddies. They found it

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-27766986559658286142008-02-29T13:42:00.000-08:002008-02-29T13:47:48.860-08:00Using male body language

Playing hard to get can sometimes put you back in the driver’s seat with women. For example, you could display a carefree attitude by slouching lower in a seat, opening up your posture, and taking up more space than necessary to demonstrate dominance. This may excite certain women since you are displaying as a typical alpha male, but if you go overboard, it will turn women off. You can also

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-40030062749251201332008-02-27T11:43:00.000-08:002008-02-27T11:48:34.108-08:00A poor Approach

Link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RhAk3GDuj7EThe book explains this well so I’m just going to pull it straight from the text. Yeah I guess I’m a bit lazy today!“It is normally perceived as a threat to approach a woman from her side or, if you are driving an automobile, her blind spot. Thus, avoid sitting or standing directly alongside a woman, especially one you don’t know very well. Women

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-60348679901585633412008-02-25T05:42:00.000-08:002008-02-25T05:45:55.417-08:00Body Language and Proximity

Body Language and Proximity We all at some point or another have taken for granted what a strong force proximity plays in our relationships until it is extended via distance. Anyone that has had to endure a long distance relationship knows how difficult it is to maintain. With infrequent contact these relationships become impossible. It would seem that distance is the primary factor in

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-82769405265907942502008-02-22T09:43:00.001-08:002008-02-22T09:44:48.810-08:00The Room Encompassing Glance

Catching a girl in the act can be very exhilarating! Now, I’m not talking about getting caught in some sexual situation here, so get your mind back in the game! I’m talking about catching a girl demonstrating that she has the ‘hots’ for you. To the untrained eye, this might be overlooked as a neutral or non-existent body language but in reality the ‘room encompassing glance’ is very specific

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-13145677551464450922008-02-18T12:07:00.000-08:002008-02-18T12:10:53.433-08:00Cops and Thugs

I was watching one of the stereotypical “Cops” shows the other day and noticed that it was a great way to examine body language. Particular body language that seems to be prominent is aggressive, defiant and authoritative language. I posted this clip (be warned strong language and content) because it is loaded with key information delivered non-verbally. The verbal language is prominent, yes,

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-2979542594728806642008-02-12T14:00:00.000-08:002008-02-12T14:02:25.896-08:00It’s all in the hair!

It’s all in the hair! Women with long hair have a very powerful tool that they can use in seduction. Hair that is soft and supple gives off indications of youth and virility, which men naturally find attractive. But the subtleties in which they indicate availabilities and sexual interest can sometimes be vague. Looking up through bangs can be seductive or perhaps even a hair toss. However,

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-18258849531091888452008-02-03T13:50:00.000-08:002008-02-03T13:55:37.982-08:00Odds are you'll get a date

Have you ever wondered how much technique was involved in meeting and “pick-up” women versus how much was just a numbers game? Well, even before PUA and pick-up artist(ry) was cool, we ran our very own test. We trucked ourselves out to the local University and found an average looking guy who was willing to simply ‘run’ some numbers, so to speak. We wanted a guy to run a prefabricated line on

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-91942641863413751182008-02-01T05:35:00.000-08:002008-02-01T08:55:02.816-08:00Body Language as a tool for life.

Over the years, I’ve found out first hand how applicable and helpful reading body language can be. From job interviews to interviewing for jobs, to interacting with new or old friends, to playing Texas holdem, it is always handy. This of course is despite the fact that my primary research was on sexual body language which I could use to better understand women and dating. However, since I am (

Christopher Philiphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05032784047973354857noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3478710299294983298.post-24285387255938530842008-02-01T02:34:00.001-08:002008-02-01T02:36:43.974-08:00Testing My Blog

Welcome to the Body Language Project Blog. Hopefully I am able to entertain some thoughts on Body Language and how it enters into my life and yours!

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